Memorials & Remembrance
Honouring a Life — In Your Own Way, and in Your Own Time
Remembering a loved one doesn’t end with the funeral. For many families, creating a memorial brings comfort, connection and a gentle sense of closeness in the days, months and years that follow.
At Lodge Brothers, we are here to help you explore meaningful ways to remember, reflect and honour — with care, clarity and compassion, at a pace that feels right for you.
Planning a Memorial
There Is No Rush — Only What Feels Right
A memorial can be held at any time after the funeral. Some families prefer to gather quietly in the weeks that follow, while others wait months before arranging a moment of remembrance. There is no right or wrong — only what feels right for you.
Memorials may include:
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A private family gathering
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A celebration of life
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A scattering of ashes
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A dedication or blessing
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A quiet moment of reflection
We can help you plan something simple or more structured, always guided by your wishes.
Places to Scatter Ashes
Peaceful Locations Across Surrey, West London & Berkshire
Many families choose to scatter ashes in places that hold special meaning. Below are some of the gentle locations often chosen across the areas we serve. Our team will always guide you through permissions and arrangements before you proceed.
Guildford & Surrounding Areas
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Guildford Crematorium Gardens of Remembrance
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The River Wey and Stoke Park (with permission)
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Surrey Hills Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty
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Local churchyards (with parish approval)
Windsor, Eton & Berkshire Borders
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Windsor & Slough Crematorium Gardens of Remembrance
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The River Thames (with Environment Agency guidance)
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Private woodland burial grounds
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Home or family gardens (with permission)
Wembley & North West London
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Breakspear Crematorium Gardens of Remembrance
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Local cemeteries and memorial gardens
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Faith-based burial grounds and churchyards
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Private gardens for intimate family gatherings
Surbiton, Kingston & South West London
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Kingston Cemetery & Crematorium Gardens of Remembrance
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The River Thames (with permissions)
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Bushy Park and surrounding green spaces
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Private gardens and memorial planting areas
Surrey Countryside
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Surrey Hills woodland and meadows
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Natural burial grounds and remembrance gardens
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Village churchyards
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Private farmland or woodland with landowner consent
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Lakes, rivers and countryside beauty spots (with guidance)
Seeking Permission to Scatter Ashes
We Will Help With Every Practical Step
Depending on the location, you may need permission from:
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Landowners
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Local councils
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Cemetery or crematorium managers
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The Environment Agency (for rivers and waterways)
Our team can assist with permissions, planning and suitable containers, ensuring everything is handled gently and correctly.
Creating a Place of Remembrance
A Space to Visit, Reflect and Feel Close
Many families choose to create a dedicated place they can return to. This may include:
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A memorial bench
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A planted tree or rose bush
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A plaque or engraved stone
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A garden tribute
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A memorial in a cemetery or churchyard
We can help guide you through local options and permissions.
Keepsakes to Cherish
Holding Memories Close
Keepsakes can offer comfort for many years. We offer a range of memorial items, including:
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Ashes to glass keepsakes (hearts, orbs, paperweights)
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Fingerprint and handprint jewellery
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Engraved pendants and bracelets
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Mini urns and keepsake urns
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Memory boxes and photo frames
Each item is handled with dignity and care.
Memorial Jewellery
A Subtle, Personal Tribute
Memorial jewellery allows families to keep their loved one close every day. Pieces may include:
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A small amount of ashes
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A fingerprint engraving
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A lock of hair
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A name, date or short message
We work with trusted local artisans to create meaningful, lasting pieces.
Ideas to Remember a Loved One
Simple Ways to Keep Their Memory Alive
Families often find comfort in:
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Lighting a candle on special dates
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Creating a memory book or scrapbook
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Playing favourite music
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Cooking a favourite meal
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Planting flowers in their memory
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Sharing stories with children and grandchildren
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Making a donation to a charity they loved
Small acts can bring lasting comfort — there is no right or wrong way to remember.
We Are Here to Help
Support That Continues Beyond the Funeral
If you would like help planning a memorial, choosing keepsakes, or finding a place to scatter ashes, our team is here to guide you gently — with care, clarity and compassion.
Lodge Brothers Funeral Directors
Here for your family — now, and always.
Contact Us
24 Hours a Day Call: 020 8818 7725
Or contact us online for advice, assistance or a quotation. When you need someone to guide you — we listen, we help, we take care.